Implementasi Kebijakan Bimbingan Perkawinan Pranikah dalam Mencegah Perceraian di Kantor Urusan Agama (KUA) Kecamatan Lubuk Pakam Kabupaten Deli Serdang

Abstract

There is an assumption that marriage as an ordinary event, marriage as a show of luxury, only as a mere formality. With this assumption, divorce is a common and ordinary matter, and even becomes a trend where when there is a conflict with their partners they just need to file for divorce in court. Lack of knowledge from prospective brides about how to foster, maintain, make a real household. The objectives of this study are: (1) Knowing the implementation of premarital marriage guidance policy in preventing divorce in the KUA of the Lubuk Pakam sub-district of Deli Serdang district (2) Knowing the obstacles and opportunities in implementing the premarital marriage guidance policy in preventing divorce in the KUA of the Lubuk Pakam sub-district of Deli Serdang district (2) . The research method used is descriptive qualitative. Data obtained from observations, interviews and study documents. Data were analyzed using sequence analysis from Miles and Huberman with steps, data reduction, data presentation and conclusion drawing. Some research findings in the implementation of premarital marriage guidance policy at KUA Lubuk pakam include; In terms of the guidance method applied is not in accordance with the methods regulated in the Directive of the Directorate General of Islamic Community Guidance. In terms of implementation time is still not optimal. The course material submitted is not appropriate, this is due to the unavailability of competent resource persons as stipulated in the Regulation of the Director General of Islamic Community Guidance. Lack of facilities, infrastructure and funds for carrying out these activities. In addition, certificates issued are not preceded by an evaluation of the results of the guidance. Pre-marital marriage guidance conducted by KUA Lubuk Pakam faces various obstacles and constraints including: The lack of supervisors or resource persons who are competent at KUA Lubuk Pakam. Lack of facilities and infrastructure to support activities. Guidance implementation time is not optimal. Guidance is carried out on working days and hours, Lack of awareness of the bride and groom to follow the guidance, Difference in the place of residence of the prospective husband / wife. Lack of guidance funds and lack of socialization and information. According to the analysis of the writer of the premarital marriage guidance policy, it must be refined along with the efforts to implement it more optimally. Enhancements to the policy include; Pre-marital marriage guidance which has been voluntary in the future must be compulsory. The method, time and course material are refined. Strong and binding regulations are needed, not just Director General Regulations but must be in the form of Government Regulations or at least Presidential Regulations.