Hardiness pada Santri di Pesantren Modern Nurul Hakim Medan

Abstract

This research is a qualitative researcher about hardiness to santri in pesantren Modern Nurul Hakim Medan, this research is aimed to find out how to describe hardiness to santri in pesantren, what are the factors of hardiness forming at santri ini pesantren and how increase the hardiness to santri at pesantren. Respondents in this research are 3 male and female students who have studied at pesantren since class 1 Mts and continue their education until Aliyah, achievement and stay away from parents. In this this research, the methods used were interviews using guidelines, and using non-participant observation. Based on the result of the research, it is known that the three respondents have hardiness which is reflected from their commitment to stay in pesantren, good control in making decision and the three respondents consider that living in pesantren is an obstacle that must be solved. The factors of hardiness is the mastery experience, feeling of positivity, parental explanatory style, the ability to make plants that are realistic, have confidence, positive to the image in and able to develop communication skills, and capacity tp manage strong feelings. In improving the hardiness of santri at the pesantren it takes time to make the respondents enjoy their days in pesantren, support of all elements of pesantren, who are in pesantren and also cooperation between parent and teacher.